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Wedding Swag: Wedding favor ideas

Everyone loves ‘swag’ and weddings are no different.  For the Island Wedding we hosted for the Road Warrior’s Daughter, we tried to extend hospitality through the gifts we left each night (along with a personal hand-written note) in each guest’s room.

Welcome Bag

Welcome Bag included:  Sandcastle book, playing cards, sunscreen, bug wipes (not pictured), hat, (not pictured) muslin bag for collecting shells, and a note from the hosts welcoming everyone to the island.

Wedding Gift Bag

Other favors:  Custom wedding tote bag with Map of wedding venue, Sea Glass Candies, Personalized S’mores, Print of handpainted map of wedding venue, customized note, bag with seashell soaps and Necker Island Box of seashells.

3 Tips for choosing wedding favors:

Remember, it’s the thought that counts, so choose favors that are thoughtful (hats, umbrellas, sunscreen, bug spray, etc).

The favors should fit the venue, the bride or groom’s personality—or both!

If it’s a destination wedding make sure it’s something that can be taken home easily.  Otherwise your guests may leave it behind or have to make special arrangements to ship gifts home.

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Island Wedding Invitation in a bottle

Earlier this year the Road Warrior’s Daughter was married in the British Virgin Islands.   Although it was a small (immediate family only) affair, we did want to send out Save The Date Announcements that would set the tone for the upcoming destination wedding.

 

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An invitation in a bottle was the obvious choice along with island inspired details such as: a map of the BVI on the label, starfish, sand, sea glass and shells.  If you’re  planning an island wedding this isn’t a difficult invitation to DIY.

Wedding Invitation in a bottle

If I could change anything about this invitation I would have aged the bottle. Other than that, I’m happy with how it came out. Most importantly, the bride was too.

 

 Resources to DIY your own Island Wedding Invitation in a bottle:

Starfish

Raffia

Bottles

Sea Glass

Sand – pick up from the beach or use white play sand

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What I read on Sabbatical

I’m never so happy as when I’m somewhere quiet and have the luxury of reading for hours on end, with a highlighter and notebook in hand. This year my goal is to make more time for reading (for pleasure) and share the books I’m reading (or have read) on the blog each month.

Books & Reading Glasses

 

 

Homemaking

Happier at Home by Gretchen Rubin
Similar to Rubin’s other book, The Happiness ProjectHappier at Home follows the same basic monthly project format based on a series of principals Rubin believes are essential to being happy at home.   Rubin then takes on monthly experiments and shares the results .   I thought it was thought provoking and inspiring.  I’ve heard others say they enjoyed it even more than Rubin’s first book, The Happiness Project, and I have to agree.  I think the reason I think I enjoyed this book more was because it seemed more applicable to what I’m doing right now.  Homemaking, specifically making a HOME for my family that fosters relationships and happy childhood memories is a focus for me.  It was the perfect book to read on Sabbatical because it got me thinking about what small but important changes I wanted to make to our home life, or my perspective on our home life, for the better of all. I read it with a highlighter and made a list of things I’d like to incorporate and new ideas I was inspired to try for myself.

Memoir

What Remains by Carole Radziwell

“We create narratives for people, because they are simpler than the complexities of real life. When narratives change, it’s unsettling, because whether or not they’re our own, they help to define us, and we don’t want to let go of them”

I had never heard of Carole Radziwell before I read this book. I also wouldn’t consider myself a fan or follower of the Kennedy Family, but I found myself wishing I had paid more attention to the story of John Kennedy Jr. and his wife after reading about them from Carole’s perspective. Her writing is so powerful and her story is both beautiful and painful. Immediately after finishing it I recommended it on my Personal Facebook page and every friend who later read it said they loved it as much as I did.

 

Augusta, Gone: a True Story by Martha Tod Dudman
I won’t lie.  As a mother, this book scared the heck out of me.  I actually stopped reading it on Sabbatical because it wasn’t doing anything to relax or encourage me. If you or someone you know is going through a tough time with a teenager, this book might be one of those you’re-not-alone books that sometimes we all just need to hear.  While I’ve read books on drug addictions before, this book really hit me in the gut.

Faith

A women’s secret to a Balanced Life by Lysa Terkeurst
This book was like a welcome balm for my soul.  It tackles the things that most women really want out of life, based on biblical perspectives.  Every woman I know talks about how busy they are and how there isn’t enough hours in the day to accomplish all that they are trying to.  For me this book was an opportunity to redirect my priorities more intentionally and feel encouraged and inspired to do so.  I highly recommend this book for any Christian woman who is either feeling overwhelmed or simply desires to know how to better live out God’s priorities for her life and find that balance we all desire.

 

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Writing

Writing down the Bones: freeing the writer within by Natalie Goldberg

This book is for writers or would-be writers. It offers encouragement, inspiration, and tips on becoming a writer, delivered  in bite size chapters.  I cannot speak to how a published author may view this book, but for me it was just the bit I needed at the right time.  I didn’t read it straight through, this isn’t that type of book. I’ve been reading a chapter here and there and it’s provided just the write boost I need to continue writing regularly, the only way to truly improve as a writer.

 

Motivation/Marketing

Start by Jon Acuff
This book is just like hearing Jon Acuff speak.  It’s purely an encouraging and motivational book. There are no deep secrets that you haven’t heard before but  Jon does offer an inspiring kick in the butt to do what you know you need to do, but haven’t been doing.  The book is applicable to any type of goal or dream.

Unmarketing: Stop Marketing, Start Engaging by Stratten

This book is about how to stop marketing and start engaging.  After hearing Scott Stratten speak at a blogging conference I was interested in reading it because it specifically covers social media and viral marketing. Although the book mostly focuses on selling products or services I thought it contained really useful information for bloggers who are primarily interested in building a platform.  Of course, like anything, the real key is what you do AFTER you finish reading the book.  Stratten lays out a pretty detailed road map to get you where you want to go.  It’s more than just a motivational book. It’s packed with useful information.

 

Have you read anything good lately? I’d love to hear your book suggestions in the comments.

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Links & Things: Summer Edition

Blue Crabs

I’m so ready for summer.  Because we homeschool year round we usually  have a light schedule during the summer, except this year.  I cannot even think about it right now without tearing up.  I’m worn out.  I feel sort of like the Worst End of School year Mom Ever, except in a homeschool way.  Which makes me both the worn out Mom and the Teacher assigning more work.  To make myself feel better we had our first Maryland Style Crabs of the season.  Some men grill, my Road Warrior makes us Maryland Blue Crabs and it wouldn’t be summer without it.

Maryland Blue Crab

Summer Inspired Links

I want to make these Summer S’More Kits with my kids for their friends.

This  Cherries Jubilee Ice Cream Pie looks like summer, doesn’t it?

Click through 26 Summer House Tours  and there’s a chance to link up your own!

 

TMD Recap

This week I shared DIY Pirate Party for Kids, our last kids’ birthday party of the season.   Each time I say it’s my best party yet, but this one is.  I even learned to use a sewing machine (very basic) in the process.

The {ditto} DIY Project continues and I hope you’ll link up with us in July. It’s going to be so much fun. I’m already planning a big trip to the fabric store.

 

Instagram Feeds to Follow

I’ve said it before, but I’ll say it again, I really love Instagram.  It’s come a long way since just shots of everyone’s food or coffees with a heart in the foam.

Neil Kramer is a writer with a great eye for instagram photography. He lives in NYC and his city perspective will make you long for (or miss) NYC.

Up Close & Stylish is the feed to follow if you love fashion. I love looking at every picture she posts even though none of the outfits fit my lifestyle. It’s just fun to look.

P.S Are you following me on Instagram? : 0 )

 

 

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DIY Pirate Party

This year we hosted a Pirate Party for our Birthday Buccaneers.  I hope this party inspires you to create your own themed event.

DIY Pirate Party

Invitation

I’ve always said that the invitation sets the tone for an event and that’s even more true with themed events.  For this event I created a Pirate Invitation in a bottle using an aging technique on the bottle and corks.

Each invitation had a custom label with the Buccaneer Guest’s name.  Most of the invitations were hand delivered but a couple were mailed packed in Spanish Moss and a narrow white box.

DIY Pirate Party Invitation in a Bottle

 

Decorations

Pirate Party Decor

The party was held  in the heart of Florida Cracker Country so my challenge was to make this rustic setting fit a pirate themed party.  Using a pond on the property, we created a ‘Pirate Lagoon’  as the backdrop for this party and the location of our shipwreck.

Pirate Plank

Pirate Lagoon

Pirate Boat

Masts were created for these tables using the DIY Pirate Mast Centerpiece instructions

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Entertainment

Pirate sword fight

The boys had one request for their party: they wanted to play a lot of games with their friends.  This Pirate Party was packed full of non-stop entertainment including a Treasure Hunt that involved riddles and clues and a Scavenger Hunt for Treasure Boxes containing the next clue.

Pirate scavenger hunt

Other games included: Capture the flag, Cannon Ball Toss, Pirate Sword Pop, Swab the Deck relay race and a Pirates Life for Me Obstacle Course.

pirate boat race

Our band of merry Pirates

pirate costumes

Menu

After all the non-stop actions we served up a buffet to feed our band of hungry Pirates.  When it comes to a kids’ parties you cannot go wrong with a buffet.

Pirate Beverages

The Pirate Theme was carried over to the buffet where playful buffet cards were made for the menu which included:

Buffet for Pirate Party

Pirate Punch,

PBJ Planks,

Pirate Ship Hot Dogs,

Pirate Peg Legs

Mr. Smee’s Deviled Eggs

pirate Buffet

Pirates Booty

Fishy Snacks

Watermelon Slices

Roasted Pig

DIY Pirate Party Buffet

 

Pirate Party Resources:

Make your own Pirate Invitation in a bottle

Visit my Pirate Party Resource Page for more information on resources used in this party.

The Sherbert Party Punch Recipe makes a great Pirate Punch

Download the Pirate Party Entertainment PDF to read more about the games we played and what you need for them. (coming soon!)

DIY Salt Water labels 

Check-out my Pirate Party Pinterest Board for more inspiring ideas

 

 

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